Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving was tough but turned out to be a wonderful day spent with family.  The hardest part was leaving at the end.  We may not see these family members at Christmastime b/c of scheduling and my mom not hosting a big Christmas dinner this year so it was really tough.  I love them so much.

The worst part of the day was my husband's insensitive comment before we left....he asked if I had spoken to my brother and I hadn't yet.  Now I had had a good morning just being busy and puttering around the  house doing the cooking I needed to do and getting the girls ready, etc.  He slept b/c he had worked overnight the night before and was tired.. no biggie.   Before we left he told me that he had thought a lot about how I was feeling anxious about the holiday and that bothered him b/c my family holidays are the ones he looks forward to b/c his family is so nuts.  SORRY dude....My FATHER died and I can't help it if I miss him and hate it!!  I let it go but why can he NOT get it???  He really is an amazing man and I love him dearly and is usually sensitive but this time you missed the mark big time buddy!!!  UGH!